love

How to deal when you have a mismatched libido

When yours and your lover’s mojo is aligned it feels like delicious belly fireworks… But if the libido balance is skewed one way it can feel like trying to light a fire with a wet match. In short, mismatched libido can feel frustrating and isolating. If one partner is “in the mood” but the other … Continue Reading

how to help a loved one die

We are all going to die, but do any of us know how to?

I had never given much thought to helping a loved one die. It was about 9pm on a freezing winter’s night, with the sound of the wind howling across the picturesque bay my Dad lived on. My children were sleeping on the other side of the house and I popped in to say goodnight to … Continue Reading

the list that saved my relationship

The Bucket List That Saved My Relationship

I had been dating my guy for a year and a half when I realised life felt as stale as a piece of old sourdough. We loved each other. It wasn’t that, bit this tale is about how I saved my relationship from a crash and burn. I have two small children from my previous … Continue Reading

signs you need couples counselling

8 signs you need marriage counseling

Recognising the signs you need marriage counseling may not be as simple as you may think. When your relationship is sailing smoothly on the love boat, it feels like the pair of you are invincible. You can smash any goal with your lover by your side, and you can’t imagine the rainbow would ever end. … Continue Reading

how to be better in bed

7 steps to being better in bed & finding your inner sex goddess

Only someone very cocky would say they don’t want to be better in bed. But if the very words “be better in bed” conjure images of contortionist like bends while playing exotic music, or weekend long sessions of tantra from which you emerge emaciated but smiling, think again. A healthy, positive and regular sex life … Continue Reading

make or break your relationship

Make or break your relationship with these 10 things

It would be a perfect world if our relationship was always giggles and bubbles, but it’s also fairly unrealistic anywhere except Instagram. Relationships aren’t easy, but there are certain behaviors that can make or break your relationship without you even realising. When you bring two fabulous individuals together with different personalities, big opinions, kooky or … Continue Reading